Developing Gratitude Amid Profound Despair
When you’re engulfed by fear, anger, depression, or any combination of these emotions, feeling grateful can seem impossible. In the depths of despair, finding something to be grateful for feels out of reach. Yet, cultivating gratitude is crucial for moving forward. Here are some thoughts on why and how to plant that first seed of gratitude.
The First 30 Days: Grieving and Adjusting
Gratitude is not likely to be your primary emotion in the first 30 days after loss. This period is for processing grief and orienting yourself toward the right resources and support. After this initial phase, it’s time to slowly start accepting your new reality. Acceptance doesn’t mean liking your situation but acknowledging that things have changed and that you will eventually want to move forward.
Introducing Gratitude into Your Healing Process
So, where does gratitude fit into this process? Some people are taught to be grateful from a young age, making it easier for them to reclaim gratitude. For others, it’s more of a challenge. But why is it important to plant even a single seed of gratitude? Because unlimited positive energy can blossom from it.
Finding and Nourishing Your Seed of Gratitude
How do you find that seed of gratitude? Start by thinking, communicating, and acting grateful. Begin with something simple, like being grateful for opening your eyes each morning or for the ability to smell fresh flowers. These basic actions are excellent starting points for developing gratitude. My personal mantra has become “Treasure Each Breath.”
Cultivating Your Gratitude
Once you’ve planted your seed of gratitude, it’s time to nurture it. Nourish your gratitude with positive thoughts (sunshine), hopefulness (water), and kindness (food). Soon, you’ll find that your initial seed has blossomed into a tree of gratitude, filled with branches of joy and happiness.
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